You create your own destiny by following your own path, and your destined soul mate lies along that path.
The inevitable anachronistic elements, including language and worldview, lead to all kinds of hilarity.
This is one of those times where a lack of skills actually leads to better end results.
You must grow strong enough to love the world, yet empty enough to sit down at the same table with its worst horrors.
Go around the pork ball a few times until you get what looks like a skein of yarn that isn't too disheveled or or too neat.
Summarized Fate is that which you cannot change.